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<font color="blue">这是ORIENTBOY<<漫漫移民路>>的第二集,关于第一集请参考<a target=_blank href=../forum/viewthread.php?tid=362986>../forum/viewthread.php?tid=362986</a></font><br>
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一、真得必须出国吗？<br>
CH1 The Choice of Lifestyle<br>
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很多人历尽千辛万苦，艰难地爬上了梯子，却发现梯子架错了墙<br>
Should we really choose the proper way?<br>
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感谢我的签证官——沃勒斯先生，他在这个美丽的圣诞节前给我发了准签。同时祝他圣诞快乐，万事顺心。更重要的是，多给，早给我们诚实的中国人一些移民签证。<br>
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To begin with, great thanks to my Case Officer—Mr. Wallace, for his great decision of granting me the skilled independent migration visa before the coming beautiful Christmas Day. And at the same time, I wish he could have a joyful break and satisfied life in the following Xmas days. Significantly, he could give increasing visas to the honest Chinese applicants. The earlier, the more, the better.<br>
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我的移民路上又一个重大里程碑得以完成。当我兴高采烈的把这个信息告诉母亲的时候，母亲又落泪了。<br>
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An important milestone in the long way to Kangaroo has been achieved. However, mother broke into tears when I was telling it to her cheerfully.<br>
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是啊，母亲年近花甲。哥哥毕业后远走他乡，在千里之外的东北某城市安家落户。娶妻生子。倒也其乐融融。可是东北国企的效益越来越差，不甘平庸的哥哥主动下岗，去了南方某城，出任一家公司的副总经理。收入翻了几翻，却远离了嫂子和侄子。儿行千里母担忧。眼看着自己的儿子一个个的离她而去，她怎么能不伤心呢。<br>
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Well, mother is nearly 60 years old now. My brother went to northern-east city after graduation from university. He married with a local girl and settled there. My nephew is an adorable boy and the elder brother’s wife is very considerate. They lead a happy life. However, the benefit of that state-own-enterprise turns worse and worse. The aggressive brother laid off and went to a south city to develop his career as a vice general manager. He earns much but lives away from his family. There is a famous Chinese saying that the mother is always worried her son no matter how far the distance is. And now I was going to Australia. What would the mother think of?<br>
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母亲的伤心，其实更多的是担心并不是自己老无所养，而是对儿子未来之路的担忧。母亲几十年的农民生活背景，极少数的出门经历，造就了她质朴的性格。母亲知道出门就意味着受苦。更使她不理解的是，我为什么放弃目前相对优越的生活，非要跑到一个连说话都听不懂的陌生世界里去受苦呢？<br>
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In fact, the mother pays much more attention to her children than to herself. She worries about my lone way in the future. Where is the meal? Where is the housing? because of years’ peasant experience and badly outdoor life, she came to know how hard the future life would be. To her big shock, why I must give up the predominant life and go through a stranger world without any close friends and relatives?<br>
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母亲的考虑是有道理的，在一个二流的城市里，不错的薪水，宽敞的住房，良好的社交网络……，放弃这些令人心动的资源，母亲是如何也不能理解的。开始告诉她我要移民的时候，母亲就坚决反对；职业评估的时候，母亲就盼着评估失败；体检的时候，盼着查出点什么病来；被调的时候，恨不得求别人说点假话。现在签证信息到了，母亲怎能不落泪呢？<br>
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The mother’s consideration is reasonable. Living in a capital city, working with a high salary, owning big houses and sound friend circle, why I gave up such seductive resource. She crosses her fingers to ask the God reject my visa case. She firmly turn against my migration idea from A to Z. She even hope I could be check out some disease that can let the case officer reject my visa application. However, I got the visa, how worry she was!<br>
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有时候想想，我是这么自私，一心考虑自己的前途，却从来没有认真考虑过母亲的感受。或许您也有过类似的感觉吧！<br>
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Occasionally, I found how selfish I am. I make mind to realize my dreams, but regardless of others’ shape. Do you ever have such feelings?<br>
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是否是真的必须出国？这是每个移友都必须回答的问题。到现在我也没有定论。回想我走过的路，通常都是被选择的，真正留给自己做决定的机会少之又少。而到了真的需要抉择的时候，又不确定该如何决断。起初的时候，是想去读书的。2001年考研，因为数学受限，没能考上。本欲2002年再考一次，却因种种原因，未能实现。加之学习、工作和家庭中的事情又不顺心，便下定决心，争取出国去读。无奈孔方兄实在少的可怜，便想到了移民和PELTS项目。管它呢，先移民再说吧。至少还可以去练练语言吧。这就是移民的最初想法。是对是错，谁知道呢？人有时候就是这样，历尽千辛万苦，艰难地爬上了梯子，却发现梯子架错了墙。<br>
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Should I have to go abroad? It is a question that every applicant must answer. Till now, however, I am not sure what the correct answer is. In most case, I am chosen by others instead that I choose things actively. When things are really coming to be decided, it is hardly to make a decision. Originally, I wish I could have a chance to get a degree. I took the Graduate Entrance Exam in 2001, unfortunately, I failed because of my poor maths score. There were enough reasons for me reject the 2002 GEE although I was so dying to school. So I made the mind to get an oversea degree. Being poor, I could not afford the education fee unless I get help from others such as PELTS. So I decided to emigrate to oz. I am not sure that I am in a proper way. Sometimes, we strived hard to go upstairs. Unfortunately, we found it a bad roof when we stand on the top.<br>
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手里拿着签证官的信，草草地看了几眼。母亲忙碌地准备着晚餐。我放肆地向母亲吹嘘着澳大利亚在哪里，距离中国有多远，以及那些道听途说的美丽风光和完善的社会福利。当然没有提及两年的移民监。母亲似乎没有听我说什么，一边煮着粥，一边炒着菜。终于这次母亲没有落泪！<br>
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I skimmed over the visa evidencing when the mother was preparing the dinner. I crowed about what Australia is like. The mother seemed never to paid attention to me. To my joys, I did not see her tears again.<br>
<br>(To be continued)<br>
<br>ORIENTBOY草于2004年12月29日<br>
<br>Written by Orientboy on December 29, 2004<br>
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