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最后发表： pal2002
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晕，就这事啊。。。
钱再多拣点垃圾也不奇怪啊。。。
因为搬家了。。。
最近琢磨着拣垃圾呢。。。
可惜没车了。。。

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looks pretty young in those pictures, like 8~9 years

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昨天晚上是在AD大学的UNION HALL看的开幕式,好感动 ,在场的所有人都站起来,一起高唱国歌,就像NEWGAY说的那样,在国内的时候唱过无数次的国歌,可是这次感觉完全的不一样,真是为自己的祖国感到自豪,然后就是好想家啊,好想我亲爱的北京,好遗憾没能亲身体会这个盛况~

最后发表： harvey1231
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dingdingding!!!!!

最后发表： harry109
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知音人啊

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41.用别种语言向他说: "我爱你" ，英文、日文等都行。

42.多称赞他，不论他在不在你身边。

43.如果你打算列一张清单要他帮忙做，
请用写情书的心情来写清单吧。

44.给他一件有趣的小礼物，
比方一根骨头----给他的狗，或者一个骷髅钥匙圈。

45.送他一件稍昂贵的，比方一条丝巾，
一张音乐会入场卷，一件小古董。

46.记得他父母的生日。

47.在他的重要活动，如面谈、演说、会议等开始之前
打电话给他，表达你对他的支持和信心。

48.写封情书或寄张情人卡给他，不管你是否出远门都无所谓。

49.订一束花送到他办公室。

50.互相按摩一番。

(转贴)

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先放上来，回头翻译。

Obama pledges support for gay families

The presumptive Democratic party nominee for President of the United States has pledged to work towards the elimination of discrimination against LGBT families if elected.

Barack Obama was responding to a letter from Jennifer Chrisler of the Family Equality Council.

Presumptive Republican nominee John McCain said in an interview with the New York Times last month that he does not believe gay people should adopt children.

In response the FEC wrote to both candidates asking them to outline their plans to "recognise, respect, protect and celebrate all of the loving families [they] seek to represent."

Senator McCain has so far failed to respond, but Senator Obama said: "I’ll be a President that stands up for American families – all of them."

"The desire to build a life with a loved one, to provide for a family and to have children who will grow and thrive — these are desires that all people share, regardless of race, sex, religion, sexual orientation or gender identity," he wrote.

"My own experience has taught me this lesson well. I was born to a single mother, my devoted grandparents helped raise me, and then I married the woman of my dreams and had two beautiful daughters.

"The love that has blessed each of those households has been strong and sure, and I know that millions of families across this nation share the same blessings.

"We also have to do more to support and strengthen LGBT families.

"Because equality in relationship, family, and adoption rights is not some abstract principle; it’s about whether millions of LGBT Americans can finally live lives marked by dignity and freedom."

Senator Obama listed more funding for after-school programmes, the abolition of the federal ban on same-sex marriage, an end to discrimination against LGBT families and "equal treatment in our family and adoption laws" as goals for his administration.

The FEC praised the candidate and pointed out that according to the 2000 census, more than 75% of American households "differ from the paradigm of a married, heterosexual couple raising their biological children."

Ms Chrisler stated in her letter to the candidates:

"Thirty-seven percent of parent households with children in the home are not headed by married,
heterosexual couples.

"Since 1940, grandparents have been the primary caregivers (without biological parents in the home) for approximately 2 percent of all children in this country, some 1.6 million children today.

"Forty percent of all children will likely be raised by unmarried partners living together for a portion of their lives.

"Lesbian and gay parents are raising four percent of all adopted children in the United States, as well as three percent of all children in foster care.

"Until grandmothers and grandfathers can easily access the government benefits intended to keep their grandchildren healthy and safe; until lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender parents can have their relationships universally and unquestionably recognised; until unmarried parents can access benefits without penalty or derision, we will not be doing justice by the millions of American families that do not fit a small minority's notion of what a"real" family is.”

Senator McCain’s comments about gay adoption were seized upon by LGBT rights advocates as evidence that he is hostile to their community.

Jody M Huckaby, executive director of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, said:

"We are disappointed and saddened that a public leader who is himself an adoptive father would deny the children in America’s foster care system the opportunity to thrive as part of a welcoming family.

"Love makes a family, but short-sighted positions like Senator McCain’s can certainly tear families apart, too.

"In a country where more than 125,000 children are waiting for foster parents, Senator McCain would deny loving homes to children who desperately need them simply because of an outdated prejudice about what a family may look like.”

In the wake of such criticism after his New York Times interview last month, the McCain campaign’s Director of Communications, Jill Hazelbaker, made the following clarification:

"McCain could have been clearer in the interview in stating that his position on gay adoption is that it is a state issue, just as he made it clear in the interview that marriage is a state issue.

"He was not endorsing any federal legislation.

"McCain’s expressed his personal preference for children to be raised by a mother and a father wherever possible.

"However, as an adoptive father himself, McCain believes children deserve loving and caring home environments, and he recognises that there are many abandoned children who have yet to find homes.

"McCain believes that in those situations that caring parental figures are better for the child than the alternative."

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news 8月6日报道，去年澳洲有一千万人看心理医生寻求摆脱焦虑、沮丧或是其他心理上的问题。
    一份研究澳洲心理健康服务行业的新报告指出，大约10个个人预约中就有1个是关于调整心理问题的，同时伴有沮丧的心情。焦虑是第二大问题，随后是失眠难安。 报告发现，澳洲人花在心理健康服务上的费用在2001至2006年间每年都上升约5.2个百分点，而今年这个数字是27亿澳元。 在公立医院的特殊诊疗上的花销以及社区心理服务中心的花销也都呈每年上升10%的趋势。 而在心理健康机构服务的员工数量也每年增加3%，同时抗抑郁及安定类药物的开药量也每年上涨1%。医疗保险机构的精神疾病学家的出诊量在那段时期也保持得很稳定，可派往边远地区的医生数量也越来越少，大部分都就近在城市中出诊。报告说，大约165,000名澳洲人在2006至07年间看过669,000次心理医生。总体而言，一千七百万次是有关心里问题的咨询。在医院里，最常被提及的诊断结果就是谨慎分裂症。
    经济学与健康服务组织的Jenny Hargreaves说，这些大范围内的数据显示，澳洲每五人中就有一人在生活中存在某方面的精神疾病。

最后发表： zgy
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！！！！！！！！！！

最后发表： harry109
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没钱就买小一点的嘛
何必辛苦自己呢

１０万块可以买个二手楼了，何必硬撑个复式洋楼呢。
只能怪自己了。
做人要量力而为。

再次对这位同龄人表示惋惜。

最后发表： applebaby163
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真可怕啊，如果引起排华，就不好了

最后发表： applebaby163
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好诗，你太有才了

最后发表： bg1pdq
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我有时读成：老弟

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幽灵李伟光曾是教友 四周前刚被沃尔玛解雇
星星生活    2008-08-05 09:44:36

加拿大割头案：李伟光四周前曾被沃尔玛解雇

　
上周三晚在一辆由埃德蒙顿开往温尼伯的灰狗巴士上，用蓝波刀将邻座22岁的青年麦克林杀死的李伟光，目前被关押在温尼伯市还押中心。由于担心他自杀，目前有至少5名监狱看守在看管李伟光。

　　李伟光将于明天（周二）再次过堂，预计届时法官将会接受检控官的要求，对他进行精神心理评估。截至目前，李仍然拒绝找律师，届时他若未聘请律师，法庭将会为他指定。

　　虽然北京奥运即将开幕，这是媒体报道的重中之重，但加国境内的中英文报纸仍在持续挖掘有关李伟光的生活细节及分析造成惨案的原因。

　　《环球邮报》报道说，李伟光仿佛是埃德蒙顿城市中的“幽灵”：他在2004年从中国移民到加拿大的温尼伯，曾经在基督教浸信会工作，但是到了埃德蒙顿却似乎从未去过教堂；他在埃德蒙顿生活了两年，但华人社区无人知晓他，他的邻居也不认识他；他总是选择容易“匿名”、少与人交流的工作--通常是夜间班和可单独做的工。

　　据称他曾经在麦当劳打工，但是全埃德蒙顿市所有麦当劳店的经理无人记得他。他也曾经在沃尔玛做过夜间部员工，但在受雇后不久就离开了。据说他离开沃尔玛是因为与一名同事产生争执，而被开除。但是该店拒绝对此提供任何信息，同时该店员工也被告知不得对外透露曾在该店汽车部工作过的李伟光的任何信息。

　　曾在沃尔玛短暂工作四周前被解雇

　　对于李伟光曾被沃尔玛解雇，《埃德蒙顿纪事报》(The Edmonton Journal)做出详细报道，该报道称，据跟李曾一起短暂工作过的沃尔玛同事表示，他在午餐休息时极少讲话，总是低着头，然后曾跟一位同事有不同意见而导致他被解雇。而在一个月后，在一辆由埃德蒙顿开往温尼伯的灰狗巴士上，李伟光用蓝波刀将邻座22岁的青年麦克林杀死，被控以二级谋杀。而她的妻子得知此消息后感到震惊和惧怕。

　　现在，只有埃德蒙顿沃尔玛Clareview店（137th AVE & 40th ST）的同事可以清晰的记得李伟光--他对汽车的喜爱，他安静的性格。他的一位旧同事昨天（周日）回忆说：“没有人跟他讲话，他也不跟我们说话，但是我们现在都在谈论他。”

　　李伟光的这些旧同事起初并没有在报刊和网站的照片中认出他来，因为他在照片中带着脚镣，身着囚服，右手打着绷带。一名旧同事说：“他的脸似乎被打过所以认不太清楚，但我们开始谈论并互问关于他的事。他在我们这里工作时比上庭时要年轻许多。”

　　于是这些旧同事开始询问经理，看被捕的Vince Li是否是那个曾经在他们这里工作过的Vince Li，然后得到肯定答案。在沃尔玛工作时，李伟光大多上夜班，并且负责清洁卫生的工作，他经常花时间在店里的汽车部（automotive department）。

　　很多沃尔玛员工表示，李伟光在四周前由于与其他同事有“不同意见”而被开除。

　　该店助理经理威尔士（Mike Wells）表示，沃尔玛公司的制度禁止员工谈论过去的雇员，他对记者表示会把问题转交给沃尔玛加拿大总公司负责，但是目前并没得到任何回应。

　　在李伟光被沃尔玛解雇后，他电话联系并返回到曾经的老板安格特（Vincent Augert）手下，重新每日派送国家邮报，安德蒙顿新闻报，及埃德蒙顿太阳报等报刊。

　　他的老板安格特前几日在接受采访时表示，李在送报公司工作了十三个月，今年四月短暂离开，六月份又回来工作。李于上周一早晨送完报纸后很沮丧，然后就消失了。安格特曾向他的太太打听，太太则很紧张地说李有些急事，离开埃德蒙顿，她也不知他去了哪儿，更不确定他次日早晨能不能回来送报。

　　安格特表示，他仍然为李伟光涉灰狗案而感到震惊。他说，“老实说，李完全不像是能做出这种事的人。他是个好人。”

　　温尼伯格兰特纪念教会牧师卡斯特（Tom Castor）周日表示，李伟光曾在该教会服务6个月，担任教会管理员，他同时也是教会教友之一。

　　卡斯特表示，李伟光初到教会工作时，才移民加拿大不久，对于能找到一份工作感到很高兴，工作也很认真。卡斯特说，李伟光于2005年春天离开教会，在教会工作期间，从来没有发过脾气，或制造过麻烦。

　　自从李伟光在灰狗巴士上残杀邻座旅客事件发生后，李伟光的妻子感到十分惧怕，并为自己今后在加拿大的生活担忧。目前，教会正在帮助李伟光的妻子。

　　李伟光行凶或与文化压力有关

　　《埃德蒙顿太阳报》（Edmonton Sun）周一引述心理学专家的意见，指出李伟光做为第一代移民，由于必须承受巨大的文化压力而有可能出现失常行为。

　　在美国研究亚裔犯罪学的孙晨（Chen Sun）表示，李伟光的案例主要涉及到移民的文化和生活压力。去年的美国弗吉尼亚理工大学集体屠杀案，杀手是一名韩裔学生。

　　阿尔伯塔大学教授、加拿大著名法律专家阿纳德（Sanjeev Anand）表示，在此类突然如被“下巫般”发疯而进行血腥暴力屠杀的案件中，被告一般都会以自动症(automatism)申请辩护。而在自动症的辩护中，如果法庭认为被告在案发时并无伤人心理，则可免于刑罚。例如，如果被告表示案发时因自动症，他正在梦游而犯下杀人罪，则可免于刑罚。

　　阿纳德认为，可能是警方缺少足够的证据，所以无法以一级谋杀起诉李伟光。他表示，似乎起初警方希望以一级谋杀起诉李，但是目前来看似乎他们缺少足够的证据。

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By Staff Writer, PinkNews.co.uk • August 4, 2008 - 17:47

The executions were carried out on Sunday 27th July

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The European Union has condemned in the "strongest terms" the execution of 29 people at a notorious prison in Tehran last month.

The mass hangings, at Evin prison in the Sa'adat Abad suburb, were given prominent coverage in the Iranian press.

The country's state broadcaster IRIB even broadcast interviews with ten of the condemned men in which they said they deserved to be killed for their crimes, which reportedly included rape, murder and "disrupting public security and peace."

"The 29 who were executed were involved in the smuggling of narcotics on a wide scale, organised crime, murder and armed robbery," said Tehran prosecutor Saeed Mortazavi.

The executions, which were carried out on Sunday 27th July, bring the total number in 2008 to more than 150.

The EU said in a statement:

"The Iranian regime's action of staging these executions and making them the focus of media attention is an affront to human dignity.

"The European Union remains convinced that capital punishment cannot form the basis of a fair and effective prosecution policy: the dissuasive effect of this penalty has never been proved and any judicial error is irreversible.

"The European Union is deeply concerned by the increasing recourse to the death penalty in Iran in recent months.

"It urges the Iranian authorities to put an end to death sentences and executions, to establish a moratorium with a view to abolishing the death penalty in accordance with the resolution adopted by the United Nations General Assembly and to respect international human rights standards for all Iranians."

In 2005 Iran sparked international outrage when it publicly executed two teenage boys.
2005年伊朗当局由于处决了两个青少年，而引起了国际社会的强烈谴责。

Mahmoud Asgari and Ayaz Marhoni were hanged because according to the regime they were rapists, however gay campaigners insist the boys were killed under Sharia law for the crime of homosexuality.
Mahmoud Asgari 和 Ayaz Marhoni 被执行绞刑的理由，伊朗当局声称他们是强奸犯，实际上同性权益组织坚持说他们实际上是因为触犯了当局的有关同性行为有罪的条文。

At first it was claimed by Iranian officials that they were aged 18 and 19.
伊朗当局屈于国际社会的压力，声称他们是在18岁和19岁的时候被处决的。

The best evidence is that both youths were aged 17 when they were executed and therefore minors, aged 15 or 16, at the time of their alleged crimes.
最有力的证据是两个男孩实际上是在17岁的时候被处决的，因此，他们实际上宣布他们有罪实在他们15或者16岁的时候。

Iranian human rights campaigners estimate that 4,000 gay men have been executed since the Islamic revolution in 1979.
伊朗人权斗争组织估计自1979年伊斯兰大革命以来，共有大约4000男性同性恋者被杀害。

Under Sharia law gay sex illegal, with penalty of death for offenders as young as 14 years old.
根据伊斯兰教教法，同性性行为是非法的，被处决者的最小年龄是14岁。

"Within the structure of many penal codes (in Iran) sodomy laws are grouped together with rape, sexual assault, incest and sexual abuse of children thereby conflating crimes of sexual violence with acts of non-procreative sex," according to the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission.

Earlier this year it was reported that the Iranian authorities are considering extending the use of the death penalty to corruption, prostitution and renouncing Islam, or apostasy, on the internet.

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I can't stop watching this video. I tear up every time.

Omg I Just Watched It

It Made My Eyes Fill Up It Was Sad But Happy x

It Was Really Emotional

I Want A Lion They Are So Cute And Lok Realy Cuddly

That is really cute and sweet. I cant believe how he remembered you after all those years.

Amazing and heart warming. The humans needs to learn from these wild(?) animals.

man this is so touching it made me all teary, i love it. this is so amazing

omg that was so powerful and dheart warming <

thats the sweetest thing ever..
i want a lion


amazing video. Great message. These two guys rock

Read on, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HjWtRYaxmWM

[ 本帖最后由 xblues 于 5-8-2008 00:24 编辑 ]

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erp职位挺多，但是普遍需要local经验，比较难~
system support不了解

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实践证明我父母是成功的，

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此炸楼非彼炸楼
不一样的

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×Hugs×, Maomao don't cry...

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Am I a sentimentalist? I happened watch quite a few gay movies lately. I often found myself  reduced to tears.  Just now, I watched Latter Days (2003), not so new, but still such a touching story. I wonder what those straight people would feel when they watch these gay movies? Would they care as much as I do? Well, I do watch straight movies.

I guess my personal life is okay, nothing too big, nothing too small, just one ordinary day after another. Gay became a quite private part of my whole life. Without all these touching stories, I almost thought I was actually as normal as the other straight guys. Well, basically I haven't been talking aloud about gay sex encounters, I never wear t-shirt says I am GAY... I defiantly haven't found anyone to get married with. Again, I left my family three years ago, the good thing about been away thousand miles from my parents is that I don't ever have to listen to them keep pushing my find myself a nice girl.

So I guess it's no big deal being gay, besides I can go to gay bars, I can download gay pornos if I am horny, I can surf gay online dating sites if I try to meet someone....:mad: What a wonderful gay life that I am having? Except there's nothing really about being gay.

How the major community taking this idea of someone to be gay? I really don't know. All I know is I still haven't told my family that I am gay yet. I haven't been fully out of the closet either, and I definitely feel devastated of being single since forever, cause I was never able to meet someone in love with. However, this is only my situation, and I believer it could been much better if I were a "normal" "straight" guy.



Link for those "hate" reviews,
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0345551/usercomments?filter=hate
Comparing to these reviews, I guess I am too sentimental and gay in this case, cause I loved this movie. :p

http://www.56.com/n_v48_/c33_/3_/16_/ldj35686_/zhajm_121223862169x_/6467000_/0_/36170888.swf

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这是一种只有成熟的人才有的睿智，我绝对赞同。
http://www.56.com/n_v41_/c38_/29_/23_/qafbeijing_/zhajm_121600829376_/606000_/0_/36605048.swf


再看同一系列节目的另外一集，采访中国同志。感觉上面那一对伴侣是生活在现代，而下面这些人是从八十年代走出来做视频的。在国外已经积极讨论同志婚姻，平等权利，或者已经不把同志当成什么特别的现象对待的同时，看国内的现状，我真不知道是是感觉可笑，还是可悲。不看了，眼不见心静。移民吧，人生苦短，没必要在这里为了这些无谓的争论浪费生命。而这也不仅仅是指同志了，就先刚刚开化一样，有多少其他的事情又不也都如此呢？我要是邓亚萍，我也把孩子生在国外。打一个比方，要是寝室里有人不洗脚，还说脚有味道正常，大多数同住的人都觉得也没必要大惊小怪。你说我是争论呢？还是转身走出去呢？我觉得还是一走了之省心省事省时间。
http://www.56.com/n_v41_/c38_/25_/24_/qafbeijing_/zhajm_121600797780_/596000_/0_/36604777.swf

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看过”满城尽带黄金甲“么？估计跟那差不多，到最后姚明顶替周杰伦跳出来吧火炬给点燃了。

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http://so.56.com/index?type=vide ... 0%CA%DC%D6%AE%C7%E9

或者直接到 www.56.com 搜索关键字 “生命中不能承受之情”

56视频的搜索做的够差的。

这个算是正剧了，猫猫看之前做好准备，洗澡，静下心慢慢看。否则看不进去，会感觉沉闷。
这是一部少有的好电影，所以一定耐心看，不要快进！小心浪费了一部欣赏好电影的机会。

[ 本帖最后由 xblues 于 31-7-2008 10:48 编辑 ]

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qichegaizhuang又来“逗你玩了”大家搜索一下就知道此人发了多少类似的逗你玩帖子了,奉劝qichegaizhuang先治好病再来吧。很怀疑体检是否能过!

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此人又来都“逗你玩了”大家搜索一下就知道此人发了多少类似的逗你玩帖子了,奉劝搂住先治好病再来吧。很怀疑体检是否能过？

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是啊,现在香港有投资移民和引入大陆优秀人才计划...

我现在只是等股市下一次上5000点的时候和我的"硕士"学位下来以后,我就凑够"引入优秀人才"的本钱了.呵呵

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NO, I haven't been full recovered from those wounds, but I do learned how to protect myself and I try to make myself stronger. So everyone would think about it before they try to insult me.
However, because they have done, I did hate those people, and still the hate exists somewhere there inside of me. I can't help. It guess it's also a way for us to learn how to forgive.

I often think people are just such nonsense and ignorance when they trying to pick up something on someone, and that makes me mad! I am not that "girl" anymore, I am a lot more masculine (only because I feel that's the way I want to be). But ignorance and discrimination exists everywhere, could be upon anything.

I realized how the gay community isolate themselves from the major community. Although we have gay pride, still there are so much for us to face and work hard to win the equal rights. I don't really agree that they gays should appreciate the acceptance of the major society and keep it low-key. In fact, a lot of people say they accept gay....... they actually never finish that sentence. They accept gay conditionally, with lots of conditions.

Something happened to me lately which gave me the chance to know how they accept gay. I think gay have to not only live comfort as who they are, but also live everyday as the gay pride. Nothing comes easy, one have to fight for what one can get, I mean the equal rights.

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我想宣传上这部电影是以一部搞笑喜剧片来宣传的，看到一半的时候，我就开始流泪，哭着笑，笑着哭的看完了下半部分。
原来这部影片总从我眼皮底下划过，我想类似的题材不会吸引我：没有大牌明星，Steve Carell也不帅，乱糟糟个个有毛病的一家人去陪小女孩去参加加州儿童选美比赛的故事。

偶然从电视上播放，我随便看看，15分钟以后，我意识到我差点错过了一部极好的片子！
任何一部看似简单的片子，要想好好的制作，剧本是需要深思熟虑的，我想这个片子的剧本经过了编剧的极力推敲。
荒诞却合理，幽默却深刻，轻松却不肤浅。

一家子人，每个人都有自己的烦心事。女主角是一个妈妈，首先妈妈的哥哥作为一个自杀未遂的同性恋者（因为恋人跟同事跑了，自己又被解雇，事业无成），被接到了家中，妈妈要儿子------一个崇拜尼采，有点自闭症的男孩来照顾这个叔叔。儿子的梦想是当一个飞行员，却不幸患有色盲，为了达成愿望，励志不说话，专门用一个本子写字和家人交流。妈妈的丈夫是一个失败的成功学理论推销者，却已经和妈妈离婚，还极力为家里的事情奔波。爷爷是一个被养老院开出的老花棍，老不正经，整天想着泡女人，和毒品。最正常的小女儿却对选美比赛着了迷，自己本身是一个小胖子，还戴一副大眼睛，却立志要当加州小姐。这样一家子开着一辆破车上路了！去陪小女儿参加选美！

接下来的你自己去看吧，推荐妈妈们去看这个片子，你会喜欢的。也推荐不是妈妈的其他人去看，不看的话会错过一堂很好的关于人生的课！

表面看这一家子都是Loser，不得不去面对梦想失败的挫折，但是他们每个人面对失败和对生活的热爱却深深的打动着我。不是每个人都天生丽质，也不是每个人都生下来就嘴里含一个金钥匙，更不是每个人都拥有实现理想所需要的品质和才能。我想这个世界本身就是不公平的。重要的是，每个人如何去面对自己的梦想，去面对困难和挫折，去接受失败，而仍然有勇气去微笑着生活！

爷爷因为吸毒过量死在了路上，爷爷吸毒而亡，死以前和小姑娘说的话：
　　姑娘：爷爷，我不想当个loser。
　　爷爷：你不是个loser！为什么你会觉得自己是个loser？
　　姑娘：因为爸爸讨厌oser。
　　爷爷：喔喔喔，等一下，你知道什么是loser？一个真正的loser是那些怕失败怕的要死，所以连尝试不敢常试的人。

当影片的最后，小姑娘跳起爷爷教得脱衣舞的时候，我才感觉看似玩世不恭的爷爷才是这个影片极力宣扬的这个理论的得道者！
你去看吧，我是含着眼泪，哭着看完的这部喜剧。

觉得我的影评写的不好，可以去豆瓣网看其他人的更精彩的影评
http://www.douban.com/subject/1777612/?i=0



56网视频
http://www.56.com/n_v155_/c29_/5_/9_/leledegongzhu_/sc_119660673952_/6154000_/0_/24247237.swf

[ 本帖最后由 xblues 于 26-7-2008 17:57 编辑 ]

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肥猫：辛苦工作一天了，打开浏览器，登录freeoz刷版，感慨道：总算回家来啊

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IMDB  http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1152282/

You can find the whole movie on Youtube at
http://www.youtube.com/results?s ... eng+Siam&page=1
However, the qualify would be much better if you could find the DVD.

Well, this actually was the second movie I saw also from Thailand. Incredibly well made. Again, both actors are young, sweet and cute. But you know this isn't the ONLY reason why I liked this movie. It's basically about two young boy's first love.... It's a bit long, however, I don't mind it at all!

I would say the script is much better written compare to Bangkok Love Story. Although I still quite convinced by the way how the director of BLS shooting the movie, all scenes are just insanely beautiful in that movie. TLOS is rather focus on telling you a whole story.

The most memorable scene would be watching these two boys kissing.... before that, the director have put enough efforts for preparation... So kind of this kissing was long waited. I was so eager and excited to see these two boys finally kissed... The story was so well written, so nature, it doesn't matter you are gay or straight, you will enjoy this love story!

I have never watched any Thai movies before, but I think I will have to keep an eye on movies from Thailand after this.








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Just some general commentary as a U.S. viewer watching this movie: It's beautifully directed. I can't comment much on the writing, but as a gay viewer in particular, I really appreciate that the script interweaves two stories: coming out and the coherence of family in a time of grief. The reason I appreciate this is that, even in the U.S., when movies deal with homosexuality, it is generally treated as a singular issue that is separate and distinct from all others. In reality it is one part of the fabric of family and love that comprises everyone's life. Without this key insight, I think the movie would deal with the issue in too patronizing or shallow a manner, as many gay-themed movies do.

Prior to watching I was acutely aware of the commentary that the movie is overlong and not focused enough. There is some truth to this; it is a very long movie for its subject matter. But I think the movie's main strength is in its characters and central subject matter. With too much editing, I could easily see how the core of the movie would be lost. For me personally I was glad the director erred in favor of too much immersion in the interplay between his characters.

As to acting -- clearly I don't speak or understand Thai. But I think some things are universal, like the mother's strength and resolve in times of crisis. And of course Mew's smile. The connection is there.

I loved the movie and I hope it finds its way to broader distribution. If nothing else, the soundtrack should -- it's truly great.

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现在在上海，整天疲劳的要死，就不拍了，传上来怕破坏我苦心经营的光辉虫象，真人照就免了。
不过，等我去了澳洲，退一层皮以后，也保不准拍一系列写真。