My case is a complex one.
OZ life is my dream but not my wife's. She worries too much about the uncertain future in OZ and she likes her current job and the comfortable life in China.
But she loves me so much and do not want to break my dream. We have a son, we don't want to be isolated. And her aunt in OZ welcomes us so much. Any time when her aunt made a phone call to China, she would ask about the progress of our immigration and show her expect. Her aunt promised us our accommodation if we need.
P.S. I surf this site but my honey never.